How to look good in every photo
The 10-pose cheat sheet for people who “aren’t photogenic”. Read it once, run the 60-second drill before your next event, and stop dreading the camera.
The 3 rules under every good pose
- Chin down, forward an inch. It feels odd; it reads as a jawline. The instinct — chin up, lean back — is what makes “hostage photos”.
- Shoulders back and down. Fear pulls them up to your ears. Exhale before the shutter.
- Weight on the back foot. Never stand square to the camera like a passport photo — shift, angle, bend one knee.
The Lean
Find a wall. Shoulder against it, ankles crossed, hands occupied (pocket, cuff, phone). Forces asymmetry.
“Let the wall hold you up.”
The Walk
Don’t stand — walk slowly toward or past the camera and let them shoot burst. Movement kills stiffness.
“Look at something, not the lens, until the last step.”
The Over-Shoulder
Face away 45°, turn your head back to the lens. Slims everything, hides nervous hands entirely.
“Lead with the chin, then the eyes.”
The Hands-Busy Fix
Give your hands a job: adjust a sleeve, hold a drink at waist height (never chest), touch a collarbone, one thumb in a pocket. Awkward hands ruin more photos than faces do.
“Hands have a task or a pocket — never floating.”
The Forward Lean
Seated: elbows to knees, lean toward the lens. Closeness reads as confidence.
“Bring your face closer than feels polite.”
The Jaw Line
For close-ups: push your face slightly forward and down (the “turtle”). Feels ridiculous, photographs sharp. Defines the jaw in every light.
“Forehead toward the camera.”
The Laugh Trigger
Fake smiles die after 2 seconds. Exhale, drop your shoulders, and actually say something out loud (“this is so stupid” works). The shutter catches the real one landing.
“Talk, don’t hold.”
The Angle-Out
In a line-up, never face flat forward. Angle your body toward the centre of the group, weight on the back foot, arm around or hand to a shoulder. Flat-on reads passport; angled reads editorial.
“Point your toes at the middle person.”
The Anchor
Couples: one person anchors (still), the other leans in. Two people both leaning = topple; both stiff = mugshot. Contrast makes both of you look intentional.
“One oak, one ivy.”
The In-Between Frame
Ask for burst mode and move between poses slowly — the frames BETWEEN poses are the ones that look candid. Candid beats posed, every time.
“Slow-motion fidget.”
The occasion map
- Dating profile — 1 (lean), 2 (walk), 7 (laugh). First photo: 3 (over-shoulder). No group shots first.
- Wedding guest — 8 (angle-out) for the line-ups, 4 (hands-busy: glass at waist) for candids, 10 for the dance floor.
- LinkedIn headshot — 6 (jaw line) + shoulders down, shot from slightly above, plain background, portrait mode.
- Holiday — 2 (walk) and 3 (over-shoulder) — movement + place beats posed-in-front-of-landmark.
The 60-second pre-event drill
In the car park, the lift or the loo: chin down an inch → shoulders down on an exhale → weight to the back foot → give your hands a job → say the laugh line. Run it twice. That’s the whole warm-up.